Bad Taste in my Mouth
I was going to post on Reese Witherspoon, who I love, but will save that for later.
I just opened my email and read a note from a so-called friend in NYC. It's the same guy who went off on me a few weeks ago about how bad Western-raised Indian girls are - how we are evil etc etc.
Well, I thought he was getting better but I was so wrong. After this weekend, when I had a bad hair day and saw my crush, I asked this friend would he lose interest in a girl if he saw her with bad hair. His answer.....yes. Also, the girl should send a picture looking her best to make up for this faux pax.
What the hell?!! Are you that superficial?!! Are you seriously telling me if a girl has ONE bad hair day - you would drop her? Oh my God - are you interested in her to be a trophy or for long term, someone good to raise your children and grow old with?
I felt like emailing him back and saying, "I'm sorry, but if that is seriously your thinking, that a bad hair day is enough to lose interest, than you do need to re-evaluate why you are not getting married. What is important to you? Why are you getting married? Do you want a partner or a pretty servant?
I suppose to my thinking, if you really like me, you'll like me for good days and bad, cause trust me I don't wake up looking like a supermodel (I wish!). You'll like me because I'm a nice person, because I have a good sense of humor, because I care about my fellow humans, because I don't take myself too seriously, because I root for the under-dog - not because at 28, I'm a pretty face (ugh, dummy you do know that people age, are you going to drop my ass for a younger model when I start to get wrinkles?).
So now I've started the day angered - great...just great.
posted by Virginia Gal @ 9:13 AM
8 Comments:
But that's why Playboy sells so well - no bad hair, you don't know how dumb they may be, just look at the pictures.
Maybe he would be better off with a magazine than a real girl.
Maybe it would be better not to open his e-mails anymore. And it would be better for him not to open his mouth. Since clearly he refuses to open his mind!
On the bright side, he helped you to reaffirm yourself (and all women) by being so crass. It made you realize the truth. You don't have to ask anyone's opinion, you have it right! And the guy who sees it your way is the one worth having.
Drop this friend and find someone less poisonous ... he obviously needs good psychotropic medications.
Clearly all of the above misjudge this man. I think bad hair is a perfect reason for dropping someone...okay even I can't be that sarcastic. And this guy thinks ABCDs are the problem.
U can do better.
Bad hair does NOT make a person. \
Your heart is so beautiful, love. It makes up for any amount of bad hair days. You've got such a powerful energy and you are full of love.
'Nuff said.
I'm with pax. DROP that poison friend....
*hug**
Maidink - hear hear, I hope Allah gives him what he deserves : )
P&T - a male supermodel, hee hee, don't think I haven't thought that - a 35 year old Muslim guy still single, strange indeed. The man doth protest to much, no?
Joe - ha ha, yes that is probably why Playboy sells so well. I agree he just needs a magazine, cause he is never going to find a real girl to live up to his expectations.
Molly - I didn't respond to his email. I don't want to get bogged down in that crap.
Merci - you are correct, on the good side it has reaffirmed who I am and what I value in myself. Maybe it was God's way of boasting myself up.
Pax - I'm not talking to him anymore, I don't need to be brought down by someone who is suppose to be my friend. Aye.
Melas - Thanks for the vote of confidence, I hope I can do better : )
Tony - oh thank you, I've been so worried about this bad hair situation, but I do hope that if someone truly liked me they would be able to see that I have more love beyond having a good or bad hair day. Hugs to you.
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